For easier review of the basic scaffolding, only two commands are
supported: add member and remove member, which have the same semantics
as the existing add and delete ioctls.
Update ifconfig to use netlink for these operations.
The netlink structure used for add member is called "modifymember",
because this structure will also be used for the modify member operation
once it's added; this allows interface parameters to be set at the same
time the interface is added to the bridge.