When constructing qpair, use the controller's notion of page size rather
than the host's PAGE_SIZE. Currently, these are both 4k, but the arm 16k
page size support requires decoupling.

There's a "hidden" PAGE_SIZE in btoc, so we must change btoc(x) to
howmany(x, ctrlr->page_size) to properly count the number of pages (in
the drive's world view) are needed for various calculations.

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