Include the opt_netlink.h file directly from netlink.h. This
ensures that the NETLINK define is correctly set. If not we may
end up with unloadable modules, due to missing symbols (such as
nlmsg_get_group_writer).
Including the opt_netlink.h file directly in netlink.h ensures that
netlink users do not all need to remember to do this include.
PR: 274306
MFC after: 3 days