This is an implementation of the client side of RFC7413. It
also includes a pre-shared key mode of operation in which the server
requires the client to be in possession of a shared secret in order to
successfully open TFO connections with that server.
The names of some existing fastopen sysctls have changed (e.g.,
net.inet.tcp.fastopen.enabled ->
net.inet.tcp.fastopen.server_enable).
This revision incorporates the comments made on the now-abandoned D13718.
This revision depends on D14046.