dpaa2_ni_media_change() was called in early setup stages, before we
were fully setup. That lead to internal state being all synched and
fine but hardware state was lost/never setup corrently.

Introduce dpaa2_ni_media_change_locked() so we can avoid reccursive
locking and call "dpaa2_ni_media_change()" instead of mii_mediachg()
as the latter does not setup our state their either.

In order for this all to work, call if_setdrvflagbits() just before
rather than after the above.

Also remove an unecessary direct call to dpaa2_ni_miibus_statchg()
which mii_mediachg() will trigger anyway.

This all fixes a problem [1] that one had to break the link (either
unplugging/replugging the cable or using ifconfig media none;
ifconfig media auto) to re-trigger the all updates and get the
full state programmed when hardware expected.

MFC after: 3 days
GH-Issue: https://github.com/mcusim/freebsd-src/issues/21 [1]