Kernel ports on startup are technically dummy ports because it's
entirely unknown how these connect in the grand scheme of things without
any kind of portal definition attached to them. Convert an EEXIST here
to an update, assuming that we own the port and should just make it
consistent with our configuration.
The scenario here can be reproduced either by crashing ctld, or by some
other mechanism that prer-creates the port, e.g.:
$ ctladm port -c -d iscsi -O cfiscsi_portal_group_tag=10 \
-O ctld_portal_group_name=pg0 \ -O cfiscsi_target=iqn.2012-06.dev.kevans:target0
$ ctladm port -p 3 -o on
Then firing up ctld with a "target iqn.2012-06.dev.kevans:target0".