kern/intr: start adding non-NULL event interface variant

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Summary

Nearly all callers have are known to have already initialize the event
before calling these functions. As such add variants which assume the
event will be non-NULL and will panic() if this occurs.

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@mhorne this is a follow-on to D33479. If the normal interface is going to include NULL-checks, but they can be omitted in some fairly common circumstances what do you prefer for new names? Underscore prefix tends to point to internal (though can also indicate lower-level), but some letter suffix would also work. Your view since you've been emphasizing the consistency here?

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Trivial update. Wondering which functions to include this flag for initially. Destroy is helpful as it provides an alternative elsewhere.