While we should have cleared all the pending I/O prior to calling
nvme_qpair_destroy, which should ensure that if the callout_drain causes
a call to nvme_qpair_timeout(), it won't schedule any new
timeout. However, it doesn't hurt to set timeout_pending to false in
nvme_qpair_destroy() and have nvme_qpair_timeout() exit early if it sees
it w/o scheduling a timeout. Since we don't otherwise stop the timeout
until we're about to destroy the qpair, this ensures we fail safe. The
lock/unlock also ensures the callout_drain will either remove the callout,
or wait for it to run with the early bailout.
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