Serialize S3X I/O and cap dtransfers while keeping namespace handling.
Select 64/128-byte submission queue entries explicitly and set
CC.IOSQES from the same value used for the software queue stride.
When fatal status is set, wait for pending PCIe transactions and then
force FLR so a wedged controller doesn't panic or timeout.
MFC: 1 week
PR: 296946
Fixes: 5e0ba47aa00e