The upcall_sockets tree owns a ref on any resident socket. When a
socket is removed after a TLS handshake failure, rpctls_rpc_failed()
thus calls soclose().
rpctls_server() does not acquire an extra ref to compensate for this.
So, if the upcall fails, e.g., because rpc.tlsservd is not running,
we'll call soclose() to drop the reference, but this effectively
releases the xprt layer's reference.
Fix the problem by acquiring an extra ref in rpctls_server(). Set a
flag to ensure that svc_vc_destroy_common() does not try to close the
socket a second time.