A previous commit turned soft updates on by default for UFS2 without
providing a way to turn them off. This corrects that by adding a new -u
flag which forces soft updates (and soft updates journaling) off.
MFC after: 1 week
Sponsored by: Klara, Inc.
Sponsored by: NetApp, Inc.
Fixes: 61dece6d27fb ("Enable soft updates by default for UFS2 filesystems.")