Require and enforce that dareprobe() has to be called with the periph lock held.
Update the softc state of the da driver before releasing the CCB.
There are contexts where releasing the ccb triggers dastart() to be run
inline. When da was written, there was always a deferral, so it didn't matter
much. Now, with direct dispatch, we can call dastart from the dadone*
routines. If the probe state isn't updated, then dastart will redo things with
stale information. This normally isn't a problem, because we run the probe state
machine once at boot... Except that we also run it for each open of the device,
which means we can have multiple threads racing each other to try to kick off
the probe. However, if we update the state before we release the CCB, we can
avoid the race. While it's needed only for the probewp and proberc* states, do
it everywhere because it won't hurt the other places.
Add asserts for some state transitions
For the PROBEWP and PROBERC* states, add assertiosn that both the da device
state is in the right state, as well as the ccb state is the right one when we
enter dadone_probe{wp,rc}. This will ensure that we don't sneak through when
we're re-probing the size and write protection status of the device and thereby
leak a reference which can later lead to an invalidated peripheral going away
before all references are released (and resulting panic).