stand/fdt: Make fdt_overlay_apply signature-compatible with libfdt

libfdt will assume a writable fdt overlay blob has been passed in, so make
ours compatible to allow easier review when we try to drop libfdt into
place. overlay from the calling context is writable, making it safe to
simply rip out everything related to copying the overlay blob in
fdt_overlay_apply.

I note here that we still have problems: fdt_overlay_apply, both our version
and libfdt's, may fail and have already clobbered the base fdt to some
extent. Future work will make sure we don't apply a potentially bogus fdt,
instead discarding the base fdt if we had an error.

Reviewed by: gonzo
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D13695