net/yate: Fix OpenSSL and SQLite dependencies

• Convert to OPTIONS helpers
• Order options alphabetically
• Add missing OpenSSL dependency
• Use base OpenSSL path from bsd.openssl.mk
• Add missing SQLite option and dependency

PR: 205170
Reviewed by: koobs (mentor), feld (mentor), miwi
Approved by: koobs (mentor)
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D4706