kern linker: Do not unload a module if it has dependants

Despite the name, linker_file_unload() will drop a reference and return
success when the module file has dependants, i.e. it has more than one
reference. When user request to unload such modules then the kernel
should reject unambiguously and immediately.

PR: 274986
Reviewed by: dfr, dab, jhb
MFC after: 2 weeks
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D42527

(cherry picked from commit f43ff3e15c8b4b161ce09c8ab008abc4222db26b)
(cherry picked from commit f1994d1eb215a2b7cb644329797dc623ec883120)