if_epair: implement fanout

Allow multiple cores to be used to process if_epair traffic. We do this
(if RSS is enabled) based on the RSS hash of the incoming packet. This
allows us to distribute the load over multiple cores, rather than
sending everything to the same one.

We also switch from swi_sched() to taskqueues, which also contributes to
better throughput.

Benchmark results:
With net.isr.maxthreads=-1

Setup A: (cc0 - bridge0 - epair0a) (epair0b - bridge1 - cc1)

Before 627 Kpps
After (no RSS) 1.198 Mpps
After (RSS) 3.148 Mpps

Setup B: (cc0 - bridge0 - epaira0) (epair0b - vnet jail - epair1a) (epair1b - bridge1 - cc1)

Before 7.705 Kpps
After (no RSS) 1.017 Mpps
After (RSS) 2.083 Mpps

MFC after: 3 weeks
Sponsored by: Orange Business Services
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D33731