mail/mutt: Remove QUOTE_PATCH option and future patch removal

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Summary

• Removing QUOTE_PATCH due to logic issues and RFC3676 quoting.
• Keep vvv initials patch from QUOTE_PATCH adding INITIALS_PATCH
• Add depercation of other patches to be removed in future updates via UPDATING and pkg-message.See PR 271190 [1] comment 12 [2].
• SASL_NONE will now add --with-sasl=no (making portlint happy)
• Update context on patches

[1] https://bugs.freebsd.org/bugzilla/show_bug.cgi?id=271190
[2] https://bugs.freebsd.org/bugzilla/show_bug.cgi?id=271190#c12

Test Plan

make patch looking for any large offsets or fuzz/failures.
build with poudriere and default options
build with poudriere and all options off/*_NONE