mail/mutt: Remove QUOTE_PATCH option and future patch removal

• Removing QUOTE_PATCH due to logic issues and RFC3676 quoting.
• Keep vvv initials patch from QUOTE_PATCH adding INITIALS_PATCH
• Add depercation of other patches to be removed in future updates via

UPDATING and pkg-message. See PR 271190 [1] comment 12 [2].

• SASL_NONE will now add --with-sasl=no (making portlint happy)
• Update context on patches

[1] https://bugs.freebsd.org/bugzilla/show_bug.cgi?id=271190
[2] https://bugs.freebsd.org/bugzilla/show_bug.cgi?id=271190#c12

Context and discussion:
https://lists.freebsd.org/archives/freebsd-ports/2023-May/003815.html

PR: 271190
Reported by: kh@panix.com
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D39985