MFC r329067:

Fix "zpool add" crash when a replacing vdev has a spare child

Fix an assertion in zpool that causes a crash when running any "zpool add"
command on a spare that contains a replacing vdev with a spare child.

This likely affects Illumos, too.

PR: 225546
Sponsored by: Spectra Logic Corp
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D14138