Ensure memory consistency on COW.

From the submitter description:
The process is forked transitioning a map entry to COW
Thread A writes to a page on the map entry, faults, updates the pmap to

writable at a new phys addr, and starts TLB invalidations...

Thread B acquires a lock, writes to a location on the new phys addr, and

releases the lock

Thread C acquires the lock, reads from the location on the old phys addr...
Thread A ...continues the TLB invalidations which are completed
Thread C ...reads from the location on the new phys addr, and releases

the lock

In this example Thread B and C [lock, use and unlock] properly and
neither own the lock at the same time. Thread A was writing somewhere
else on the page and so never had/needed the lock. Thread C sees a
location that is only ever read|modified under a lock change beneath
it while it is the lock owner.

To fix this, perform the two-stage update of the copied PTE. First,
the PTE is updated with the address of the new physical page with
copied content, but in read-only mode. The pmap locking and the page
busy state during PTE update and TLB invalidation IPIs ensure that any
writer to the page cannot upgrade the PTE to the writable state until
all CPUs updated their TLB to not cache old mapping. Then, after the
busy state of the page is lifted, the faults for write can proceed and
do not violate the consistency of the reads.

The change is done in vm_fault because most architectures do need IPIs
to invalidate remote TLBs. More, I think that hardware guarantees of
atomicity of the remote TLB invalidation are not enough to prevent the
inconsistent reads of non-atomic reads, like multi-word accesses
protected by a lock. So instead of modifying each pmap invalidation
code, I did it there.

Discovered and analyzed by: Elliott.Rabe@dell.com
Reviewed by: markj
PR: 225584 (appeared to have the same cause)
Tested by: Elliott.Rabe@dell.com, emaste, Mike Tancsa <mike@sentex.net>, truckman
Sponsored by: The FreeBSD Foundation
MFC after: 1 week
Differential revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D14347