Ensure that the UFS directory vnode' vm_object is properly sized
before UFS_BALLOC() is called. I do not believe that this caused any
real issue on FreeBSD because the exclusive vnode lock is held over
the balloc/resize, the change is to make formally correct KPI use.

Based on: the Matthew Dillon' patch from DragonFly BSD
PR: 93942
Reviewed by: mckusick
Tested by: pho
Sponsored by: The FreeBSD Foundation
MFC after: 1 week