Fix a LOR between vnode locks and allproc_lock.

There is an order between covered vnode lock and allproc_lock, which
is established by calling mountcheckdirs() while owning the covered
vnode lock. mountcheckdirs() iterates over the processes, protected by
allproc_lock. This order is needed and seems to be not avoidable.

On the other hand, various VM daemons also need to iterate over all
processes, and they lock and unlock user maps. Since unlock of the
user map may trigger processing of the deferred map entries, it causes
vnode locking to occur. Or, when vmspace is freed, dropping references
on the vnode-backed object also lock vnodes. We get reverted order
comparing with the mount/unmount order.

For VM daemons, there is no need to own allproc_lock while we operate
on vmspaces. If the process is held, it serves as the marker for
allproc list, which allows to continue the iteration.

Add _PHOLD_LITE() macro, similar to _PHOLD(), but not causing swap-in
of the kernel stacks. It is used instead of _PHOLD() in vm code,
since e.g. calling faultin() in OOM conditions only exaggerates the
problem.

Modernize comment describing PHOLD.

Reported by: lists@yamagi.org
Tested by: pho (previous version)
Reviewed by: jhb
Sponsored by: The FreeBSD Foundation
MFC after: 3 week
Approved by: re (gjb)
Differential revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D6679