Account for AIO socket operations in thread/process resource usage.

File and disk-backed I/O requests store counts of read/written disk
blocks in each AIO job so that they can be charged to the thread that
completes an AIO request via aio_return() or aio_waitcomplete(). This
change extends AIO jobs to store counts of received/sent messages and
updates socket backends to set these counts accordingly. Note that
the socket backends are careful to only charge a single messages for
each AIO request even though a single request on a blocking socket might
invoke sosend or soreceive multiple times. This is to mimic the
resource accounting of synchronous read/write.

Adjust the UNIX socketpair AIO test to verify that the message resource
usage counts update accordingly for aio_read and aio_write.

Approved by: re (hrs)
Sponsored by: Chelsio Communications
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D6911