Prevent parallel object collapses. Both vm_object_collapse_scan() and
swap_pager_copy() might unlock the object, which allows the parallel
collapse to execute. Besides destroying the object, it also might
move the reference from parent to the backing object, firing the
assertion ref_count == 1.

Collapses are prevented by bumping paging_in_progress counters on both
the object and its backing object.

Reported by: cem
Tested by: pho (previous version)
Reviewed by: alc
Sponsored by: The FreeBSD Foundation
MFC after: 1 week
X-Differential revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D6085