MFV 286707: 5959 clean up per-dataset feature count code

Reviewed by: Toomas Soome <tsoome@me.com>
Reviewed by: George Wilson <george@delphix.com>
Reviewed by: Alex Reece <alex@delphix.com>
Approved by: Richard Lowe <richlowe@richlowe.net>
Author: Matthew Ahrens <mahrens@delphix.com>

illumos/illumos-gate@ca0cc3918a1789fa839194af2a9245f801a06b1a

A ZFS feature flags (large blocks) tracks its refcounts as the number of
datasets that have ever used the feature. Several features of this type
are planned to be added (new checksum functions). This code should be made
common infrastructure rather than duplicating the code for each feature.