Place VM objects on the object list when created and never remove them.
This is ok since objects come from a NOFREE zone and allows objects to
be locked while traversing the object list without triggering a LOR.

Ensure that objects on the list are marked DEAD while free or stillborn,
and that they have a refcount of zero. This required updating most of
the pagers to explicitly mark an object as dead when deallocating it.
(Only the vnode pager did this previously.)

Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D2423
Reviewed by: alc, kib (earlier version)
MFC after: 2 weeks
Sponsored by: Norse Corp, Inc.