ixl(4): Add tunable to override Flow Control settings
Add flow_control to hw.ixl tunables tree to let override
initial flow control configuration for all interfaces.
Keep using configuration set by NVM by default.
Reviewed by: erj@, gallatin@
Tested by: gowtham.kumar.ks_intel.com
Sponsored by: Intel Corporation
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D29338
(cherry picked from commit 20a52706c814ccfd91c65586404abd2a1563a330)