tcp: Handle stack switch while processing socket options

Handle the case where during socket option processing, the user
switches a stack such that processing the stack specific socket
option does not make sense anymore. Return an error in this case.

Reviewed by: markj
Reported by: syzbot+a6e1d91f240ad5d72cd1@syzkaller.appspotmail.com
Sponsored by: Netflix, Inc.
Differential revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D30395

(cherry picked from commit 8923ce630492d21ec57c2637757bcc44da9970f8)