tcp: Add/update AccECN related statistics and numbers

Reserve couters in the tcps struct in preparation
for AccECN, extend the debugging output for TF2
flags, optimize the syncache flags from individual
bits to a codepoint for the specifc ECN handshake.

This is in preparation of AccECN.

No functional chance except for extended debug
output capabilities.

Reviewed By: transport, rrs
Sponsored by: NetApp, Inc.
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D34161