tcp: Access all 12 TCP header flags via inline function

In order to consistently provide access to all
(including reserved) TCP header flag bits,
use an accessor function tcp_get_flags and
tcp_set_flags. Also expand any flag variable from
uint8_t / char to uint16_t.

Reviewed By: hselasky, tuexen, glebius, transport
Sponsored by: NetApp, Inc.
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D34130