unlink, rmdir: call notify_upper from VOP pre method instead of syscall
Suppose that there are two or more nullfs mounts over some fs, and
suppose the we unlink a file on one of the nullfs mount.
This way notify_upper get called from the lower vnode as well, allowing
the other nullfs mounts to note that and drop their caches for the
unlinked vnode.
PR: 254210
Reviewed by: olce
Tested by: pho
Sponsored by: The FreeBSD Foundation
MFC after: 1 week
Differential revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D48825