LinuxKPI: 802.11: disable early queue wakeup workaround; better classify

We used to call lkpi_wake_tx_queues() for all queues early on in order
to make sure they are ready. Turns out whatever logic in iwlwifi
startup is working correctly these days under LinuxKPI so this is no
longer needed. As the comment indicated the "workaround" did not
always work. Disable it for now.

The second part of the improvement is to properly classify Non-QOS
non-data frames (mgmt and ctl frames for now, unless we have to be
even more careful in the future about certain sub-types) as TID 7/VO.
Contrary to net80211 we must not promote PAE frames.

PR: 274382
MFC after: 3 day
Reviewed by: cc
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D43944