net/openldap26-server: fix build with lld 17 and DEBUG option off

If the DEBUG option for the net/openldap26-server is turned off,
building the port will result in:

ld: error: version script assignment of 'OPENLDAP_2.200' to symbol 'ldap_dump_connection' failed: symbol not defined
ld: error: version script assignment of 'OPENLDAP_2.200' to symbol 'ldap_dump_requests_and_responses' failed: symbol not defined
cc: error: linker command failed with exit code 1 (use -v to see invocation)

This is because the mentioned symbols are in a #ifdef LDAP_DEBUG block,
and will indeed not be defined if DEBUG option is off.

Adjust the port Makefile to delete the undefined symbols from the
ldap.map file, if the DEBUG option is off.

PR: 277585
Reported by: Matt Magoffin <bugs.freebsd.org@msqr.us>

(cherry picked from commit 3d75c31b623969e665a9c83337efe34417cd4b78)