The goal of this is to only run './configure --help' once, rather than
N times for each option we're looking for.
While here I noticed that the --build support for >autoconf-2.13 from
r218938 and r219124 was not quite right. This requires further
investigation and a separate fix.
This also includes --enable-jobserver which has an EXP-RUN request
at https://bugs.freebsd.org/bugzilla/show_bug.cgi?id=217670