sfxge(4): add accessor for default port mode

[arybchik]

Summary

Extend efx_mcdi_get_port_modes() to optionally pass on the default
port mode field. This provides a more direct way of handling the case
where the dynamic config does not specify the port mode than the
alternative of a lookup table indexed by MCFW subtype.

Submitted by: Richard Houldsworth <rhouldsworth at solarflare.com>
Sponsored by: Solarflare Communications, Inc.

Test Plan

amd64 tinderbox kernel builds tested
driver loaded/unloaded, interfaces up/down, traffic works fine