Move IPv6 source address checks from after extension header heandling
to the top of the function. If we do not pass these checks there is
no reason to do a lot of work upfront.

Fold extension header preparations and length calculations together into
a single branch and macro rather than doing them sequentially.
Likewise move extension header concatination into a single branch block
only doing it if we recorded any extension header length length.

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