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Simplify lazy advance with a 64bit atomic cmpset.

Description

Simplify lazy advance with a 64bit atomic cmpset.

This provides the potential to force a lazy (tick based) SMR to advance
when there are blocking waiters by decoupling the wr_seq value from the
ticks value.

Add some missing compiler barriers.

Reviewed by: rlibby
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D23825