UMA: Don't destroy zones after the system shutdown process starts.

Some kernel subsystems, notably ZFS, will destroy UMA zones from a
shutdown eventhandler. This causes the zone to be drained. For slabs
that are mapped into KVA this can be very expensive and so it needlessly
delays the shutdown process.

Add a new state to the "booted" variable, BOOT_SHUTDOWN. Once
kern_reboot() starts invoking shutdown handlers, turn uma_zdestroy()
into a no-op, provided that the zone does not have a custom finalization
routine.

PR: 242427
Reviewed by: jeff, kib, rlibby
MFC after: 2 weeks
Sponsored by: The FreeBSD Foundation
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D23066