After the unlink() of one name of a file with multiple links, a
stat() of one of the remaining names of the file does not show an
updated ctime (inode modification time) until several seconds after
the unlink() completes. The problem only occurs when the filesystem
is running with soft updates enabled. When running with soft updates,
the ctime is not updated until the soft updates background process
has settled all the needed I/O operations.

This commit causes the ctime to be updated immediately during the
unlink(). A side effect of this change is that the ctime is updated
again when soft updates has finished its processing because that
is the time that is correct from the perspective of programs that
look at the disk (like dump). This change does not cause any extra
I/O to be done, it just ensures that stat() updates the ctime before
handing it back.

PR: 241373
Reported by: Alan Somers
Tested by: Alan Somers
MFC after: 3 days
Sponsored by: Netflix