MFV r350898, r351075: 8423 8199 7432 Implement large_dnode pool feature

8423 8199 7432 Implement large_dnode pool feature

7432 Large dnode pool feature
8199 multi-threaded dmu_object_alloc()
8423 Implement large_dnode pool feature
10406 large_dnode changes broke zfs recv of legacy stream

llumos/illumos-gate@54811da5ac6b517992fdc173df5d605e4e61fdc0
https://github.com/illumos/illumos-gate/commit/54811da5ac6b517992fdc173df5d605e4e61fdc0
https://www.illumos.org/issues/8423
https://www.illumos.org/issues/8199
https://www.illumos.org/issues/7432

illumos/illumos-gate@811964cd9f1fbae0fc3b93d116269e9b1fca090a
https://github.com/illumos/illumos-gate/commit/811964cd9f1fbae0fc3b93d116269e9b1fca090a
https://www.illumos.org/issues/10406

ZoL issues:
Improved dnode allocation #6564
Clean up large dnode code #6262
Fix dnode_hold() freeing dnode behavior #8172
Fix dnode allocation race #6414, #6439
Partial: Raw sends must be able to decrease nlevels #6821, #6864
Remove unnecessary txg syncs from receive_object() Closes #7197

This updates FreeBSD large_dnode code (that was imported from ZoL) to a
version that was committed to illumos. It has some cleanups,
improvements and fixes comparing to what we have in FreeBSD now.
I think that the most significant update is 8199 multi-threaded
dmu_object_alloc().

This commit reverts r351077 that was a revert of r351074 and r351076 and
restores those changes. Required atomic operations should be available
now on all platforms where we build ZFS.

Obtained from: illumos
MFC after: 3 weeks