Use the sleepq lock rather than the page lock to protect against wakeup
races with page busy state. The object lock is still used as an interlock
to ensure that the identity stays valid. Most callers should use
vm_page_sleep_if_busy() to handle the locking particulars.

Reviewed by: alc, kib, markj
Sponsored by: Netflix
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D21255