MFC r349839, r349850

r349839:
Call device_unbusy() on the error exit path, because if iicbus_request_bus()
returns an error, iicbus_release_bus() is not going to be called.

r349850:
Restore the ability for i2c slave devices to do IO from their probe method.

r348164 added code to iicbus_request_bus/iicbus_release_bus to automatically
call device_busy()/device_unbusy() as part of aquiring exclusive use of the
bus (so modules can't be unloaded while the bus is exclusively owned and/or
IO is in progress). That broke the ability to do i2c IO from a slave device
probe method, because the slave isn't attached yet, so calling device_busy()
triggers a sanity-check panic for trying to busy a non-attached device.

Now we check whether the device status is < DS_ATTACHING, and if so we busy
the iicbus rather than the slave device. I think this leaves a small window
where a module could be unloaded while probing is in progress. But I think
that's true of all devices, and probably should be fixed by introducing a
DS_PROBING state for devices, and handling that at various points in the
newbus code.