fusefs: replace obsolete array idioms

r345742 replaced fusefs's fufh array with a fufh list. But it left a few
array idioms in place. This commit replaces those idioms with more
efficient list idioms. One location is in fuse_filehandle_close, which now
takes a pointer argument. Three other locations are places that had to loop
over all of a vnode's fuse filehandles.

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