fusefs: don't force direct io for files opened O_WRONLY

Previously fusefs would treat any file opened O_WRONLY as though the
FOPEN_DIRECT_IO flag were set, in an attempt to avoid issuing reads as part
of a RMW write operation on a cached part of the file. However, the FUSE
protocol explicitly allows reads of write-only files for precisely that
reason.

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