Only call sigdeferstop() for NFS.

Use bypass to catch any NFS VOP dispatch and route it through the
wrapper which does sigdeferstop() and then dispatches original
VOP. NFS does not need a bypass below it, which is not supported.

The vop offset in the vop_vector is added since otherwise it is
impossible to get vop_op_t from the internal table, and I did not
wanted to create the layered fs only to wrap NFS VOPs.

VFS_OP()s wrap is straightforward.

Requested and reviewed by: mjg (previous version)
Tested by: pho
Sponsored by: The FreeBSD Foundation
Differential revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D17658