Check for a cm_id->device in all user calls that need it in ibcore.

This was done by auditing all callers of ucma_get_ctx and switching the
ones that unconditionally touch ->device to ucma_get_ctx_dev. This covers
a little less than half of the call sites.

The 11 remaining call sites to ucma_get_ctx() were manually audited.

Linux commit:
4b658d1bbc16605330694bb3ef2570c465ef383d
8b77586bd8fe600d97f922c79f7222c46f37c118

MFC after: 1 week
Sponsored by: Mellanox Technologies