[iwm] Properly implement iwm_wme_update callback function.

• Inspired by iwn(4) and Linux iwlwifi.

• Read wme parameters into a buffer within struct iwm_vap in iwm_wme_update().

• If we aren't associated yet, the new settings will soon be sent by iwm_mvm_mac_ctxt_changed() during association.

• If we are already associated, explicitly call iwm_mvm_mac_ctxt_changed() from iwm_wme_update() to send the new settings to the firmware.

• Change iwm_mvm_ac_to_tx_fifo mapping, to fit the freebsd net80211 WME stream class numbering, instead of Linux's enum ieee80211_ac_numbers.

Obtained from: dragonflybsd.git b8bd6cd746d1f45e616ccfcbeed06dfe452a1108