Do not rely on data alignment after m_pullup().

In general case m_pullup() does not really guarantee any data alignment.
Instead of depenting on side effects caused by data being always copied
out of mbuf cluster (which is probably a bug by itself), always allocate
aligned BHS buffer and read data there directly from socket.

While there, reuse new icl_conn_receive_buf() function to read digests.
The code could probably be even more optimized to aggregate those reads,
but until that done, this is still easier then the way it was before.

MFC after: 2 weeks