Add WITH_LLD_AS_LD build knob

If set it installs LLD as /usr/bin/ld. LLD (as of version 3.9) is not
capable of linking the world and kernel, but can self-host and link many
substantial applications. GNU ld continues to be used for the world and
kernel build, regardless of how this knob is set.

It is on by default for arm64, and off for all other CPU architectures.

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