Provide helper macros to detect 'non-silent SBDRY' state and to
calculate appropriate return value for stops. Simplify the code by
using them.

Fix typo in sig_suspend_threads(). The thread which sleep must be
aborted is td2. (*)

In issignal(), when handling stopping signal for thread in
TD_SBDRY_INTR state, do not stop, this is wrong and fires assert.
This is yet another place where execution should be forced out of
SBDRY-protected region. For such case, return -1 from issignal() and
translate it to corresponding error code in sleepq_catch_signals().
Assert that other consumers of cursig() are not affected by the new
return value. (*)

Micro-optimize, mostly VFS and VOP methods, by avoiding calling the
functions when SIGDEFERSTOP_NOP non-change is requested. (**)

Reported and tested by: pho (*)
Requested by: bde (**)
Sponsored by: The FreeBSD Foundation
MFC after: 2 weeks
Approved by: re (gjb)